Don’t try and pull us into your nonsensical issues with your frenemies, unless you want the blunt rational answer we will provide you.
Don’t try and play stupid mind games with us, as we will see right through it.
We avoid it like the plague and will not be pulled into it, as we are extremely rational and have no room for that nonsense in our brain cavity.
Don’t try and make us jealous on purpose, as it won’t work.
INTJs don’t do chaos and drama We are well aware that some people absolutely thrive on drama and overall chaos in their lives. I don’t mean to be brash, however it is my experience that any drama and chaos has been directly linked to the INTJ’s significant other rather than the INTJs themselves.
INTJs need direct communication This falls along the line of playing games, and we hold high regard and value in direct communication.
We quickly get emotionally exhausted with the need or expectation to drag something out of our significant other. We may be disappointed, but you will be surprised how quickly we get over it and move towards a solution.
If there is a problem, we want to approach a possible solution as quickly as possible, and we cannot do that without knowing what the problem is. If we have to drag it out of you, or find out that the anger has been harbored over time, you will feel a much greater wrath.
Not only will we have the original disappointment, we will have increased disappointment simply due to the fact that we were not aware when the problem arose. Once you have been with an INTJ for a length of time, you will learn that this just makes things easier, that we often accept your communication without judgement, backlash and we move quickly to resolve it. INTJs need alone time This has been the largest source of contempt in past relationships, and it is equally something that will never change.