The swinging lifestyle is about sharing the sexual fantasies together with your partner ("together" being the keyword).This is the lifestyle that can only work for the committed couples that are secure in their relationships and have open and direct communication with each other.Sex used to be something that only people who are deeply in love, and most of the time married, were supposed to share.One of the new realized realities of our society today is the fact that most people can now separate love and sex.By suppressing your feelings you are not getting rid of them, but many times you actually make them stronger.So, there goes the trust and communication that few relationships can survive without.The second choice is something that quite a few people choose to do as a way out - adultery.Even though in this case you do get to satisfy your desires, you once again end up with the absence of those two main ingredients of any strong relationship that we just talked about.
This event is the first and only clothing optional Lifestyle party in Miami's South Beach.
You can go only as far as social flirting, light touching with a friendly couple, or you can choose to get sexual with just your own partner while another couple is enjoying each other in the same room.
It all depends on how you and your partner want your swinging experience to happen, and you should never go any further than the comfort level that you have set.
Another misunderstanding about the lifestyle is the myth that swingers are people who screw everyone they meet in the lifestyle and do it as often as they can. As a matter of fact, most couples are not what's called "hardcore swingers".
There are different types of swinging and a couple can select the one that caters to their sexuality the best.